45 Funny, Interesting, and Serious Conversation Starters for Messenger

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When chatting someone new, it can be nerve-wracking to think of a topic that resonates with both of you. With that, we have here 40 funny, casual and serious conversation starters for someone you’re chatting on messenger.

Ensure to know more about the person, as well as removing the awkwardness of dead-end messages with these conversation starters.

Funny Conversation Starters for Messenger

  1. In those first few seconds are you hoping it’s Ice Ice Baby or Under Pressure?
  2. What would you do during the purge?
  3. What was the best water you ever drank?
  4. What’s your favorite form of potato?
  5. If you were a condiment, what would you be, and why?
  6. What’s the stupidest Wi-Fi name you have seen?
  7. What is that one thing that you did in your childhood and felt cool about it, however, now you find it stupid?
  8. What is one thing you should never say at a wedding?
  9. If you become a ghost, what would be the first thing that you would do?
  10. Would you like to have an extra arm or an extra leg?
  11. What’s your favorite dinosaur?
  12. What is the worst advice that you’ve ever taken?
  13. How would you spend your winnings if you won the lottery?
  14. Does anything good happen after midnight?
  15. If there is life on Mars, would you like to relocate?

Interesting Conversation Starters for Messenger 

  1. Out of all the different art forms which one is your personal favorite?
  2. What’s the most interesting thing you’ve read lately?
  3. Who’s your favorite comedian?
  4. Have you ever been on a blind date?
  5. Which Of Your Friends Or Family Do You Look Up To Most?
  6. What’s the last movie you saw in theatres? Was it worth the trip?
  7. What do you think are the best traits for a person to have?
  8. When was the last time you used the words “thank you”?
  9. What is the first thing you think about when you wake up in the morning?
  10. What is your favorite part of school? Your least favorite?
  11. What Song Do You Listen To The Most?
  12. Did you fulfill your childhood dream?
  13. What do you most like about yourself?
  14. Are there any common misconceptions about your job?
  15. What’s keeping you busy lately?

Serious Conversation Starters for Messenger

  1. What values are important in your life? Were they imparted to you by your parents? If not, from where did they come?
  2. What does success mean to you?
  3. Are humans better at creation or destruction?
  4. What do you think the world will be like in twenty-five years?
  5. Where do you see yourself in five years?
  6. What scares you the most? Has what you are afraid of changed since you were a child?
  7. What is the purpose of art in society?
  8. What is your major goal in life?
  9. Who is behind the mask that you show to the rest of the world?
  10. Who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
  11. Is what we perceive reality or just a construct of our minds? Can our minds correctly interpret reality or is reality subjective?
  12. What is the most difficult thing you’ve ever done?
  13. What scares you most about your future?
  14. Have you ever written poetry, a story, or painted a picture? If so, what about?
  15. What are your greatest weaknesses? Your greatest strengths?

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